In a message dated 6/7/99 11:09:38 AM Pacific Daylight Time,
rmarken@EARTHLINK.NET writes:
<< How about describing your hypotheses about the variables you think
are being controlled, the way you disturbed those variables and
the evidence that suggests that these variables are being
controlled.
Best
Rick >>
were to start ... were to start.... humm
That is the question. Where is a good starting point?
Common ground, is what I am looking to establish.
First question. What is it that we share?
Being on the CSGnet. (This is not a guess it is a fact, start with an
agreeable Fact)
Second question, Why do people subscribe to the CSGnet?
Now I have to guess at the Whys. (motives, intentions, purposes)
Guess # 1
You may want to know How and Why people are able to get consistent results in
an inconsistent world.
Guess #2
You may want to use PCT as a way to DO better science. Better Predictions,
Reliable and Valid results.
Guess #3
You may want to know that what you learned about psychology is mostly wrong,
That output (behavior) is not the key to understanding human beings or
another living control system.
Guess #4
You may think the world of Traditional Psychology and are just here to make
sure nothing is a threat to the world you constructed using situational
theories to explain a liner cause effect relationship S-O-R.
Guess #5
You are bored and no one else will talk with you.
These guesses could go on further, but I think these about cover the spectrum
at different points.
To each of the 5 guesses to motives of being on the CSGnet there is a NULL
hypotheses.
Guess # 1
You don't care How and Why people are able to get consistent results in an
inconsistent world, you just like to bicker and argue like lawyers.
Guess #2
You not even using PCT as a way to DO better science you not even doing
science. You just like ripping each others point of view with another point
of view. There in no science here regarding better Predictions, Reliable and
Valid results, just
sophistry.
By stating the Null I can see who is receiving ERROR, either Positive or
Negative.
The people receiving positive error -- would respond in the vain of .......
What the hell. Who the F$&%&$ do you think you are. Or NO you are not even
close I do -- Practice Science and DO IT quite well using PCT.
The people receiving negative error -- would respond in the vain of ......
Great post. You're right on the money. I am grinning like a Cheshire cat.
So in short ----
Establish common ground - rapport
Observe what they are doing -- the results of their behavior not the behavior
itself.
Tell someone how you "see it" (but purposely guess wrong -- either completely
wrong or a little off the mark, will draw out a response) For example
sometimes when I first start talking to someone who just ODed or cut their
wrist, I will get no response to the question. So what happened tonight?
Answer: Nothing. My response back to them goes something like this ---- Oh,
so this is where you like to spend your Friday nights, you come here often?
Answer: NO!, you see what happened was........
Get them to tell you as best they can what they do want, and is it realistic.
Come up with a plan that can take you from here to there based on the
person's own Perceptions goals and behaviors.
Your friend in control (and sometimes out of control)
Mark Lazare