[From Rick Marken (991119.0900)]
Marc Abrams (991118,2237) --
Rick, You have a difficult time convincing me you think RTP
is a good program.
Thanks for warning me. I think I'll stop trying. Well, OK, I'll
just try one more time. An acquaintance of mine here in LA
teaches at a private grammar school. They are having discipline
problems and my friend knows these result from the authoritarian
approach imposed by the administration. A new administrator was
going to be hired and my friend thought this person might be
open to a new approach. I recommended the RTP program to her
and gave her Ed's address. I don't know if she has been able
to convince the new administrator to use the program yet; but I
told her RTP was an excellent program, just what she was
looking for and would definitely solve the problems she was
having at the school.
Again, I think the program, as practiced, is great; the program,
as described in the written literature, is behavior modification
using PCT jargon.
My point is that 4 friendships of over 20 years have gone
into the toilet because of a lack of tolerance on
_everybodies_ part.
Tell me about it. You could have knocked me over with a feather
when Tom posted his "Open Letter" to Bill and me last year. I
was sure Tom was sitting on the sidelines, nodding with approval.
I guess I was actually choosing to make Tom mad;-) Go figure.
I _DO NOT_ believe ED Ford or anyone associated with him is
looking to mis-lead or purposefully mis-represent their program.
You seem to think otherswise. If not, why the vendetta.
I don't think anyone wants to misrepresent the program; I think
it is misrepresented by accident. As I said, it is currently
described (in writing and with the best of intentions) as a
behavior modification program. I think it would be better
publicity for the program and a better guide for would be
participants if the program were described more accurately,
emphasizing the aspects of the program that make it work.
I don't think you have any idea of why it works or why it doesn't.
Actually, I do. Over a year ago Bill and I independently gave the
same explanation of why it works. I think it works because the
teachers are able to remove disruptive kids with minimal conflict,
the teacher doesn't have to waste his/her time trying to control
the disruptive kids; the other kids don't have to be disrupted.
It also works when there is a skilled and caring person in the
RTC who can help a kid deal with the aspects of the school
experience that are creating difficulties for him/her.
But I think your assault on Ed and the RTP program has been
one huge negative.
My "assault" has been on Ed's description of the RTP program.
Also, a lot of my "assault" has been tangential to RTP; it's
my reaction to people who (for whatever reason) deny that
sometimes people (especially children) might be "choosing" what
you want them to choose because the they fear the consequences
of not choosing it. To not recognize the _possibility_ that a
person (especially a weak child) might be "choosing" to do
something as an alternative to a feared consequence strikes
me as being incredibly naive or just plain mean.
if you were looking to alienate you _did_ accomplish that.
Again, I was not looking to alienate anyone. I'm afraid
I cannot take responsibility for my incredible success at
alienating Tom et al. It was a complete (and surprising)
side effect of trying to control for getting PCT right.
Best
Rick
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