[From Bill Powers (2002.11.03.17309 MST)]
Rick Marken (2002.11.03.1100)--
>I think that people _do_ try to control perceptions of emotion. But I think
this, not because of any neurophysiological evidence but because I have
experienced this phenomenon myself. I have tried to control my own emotional
perceptions, like sadness, in the sense that I've wanted them to go away.
So at least one person (me) has tried to control the perception of emotional
feelings directly. This kind of control is most evident to me when I am _not_
conscious of the actual cause of the emotion (in the sense that I don't know
what perception I'm failing to control). So when I feel sadness but don't
know why my first inclination is just to make the sadness go away. Of
course, my ability to actually control my emotional experience is rather
poor. Successful control of the emotion requires, first, identification of
the perception I'm not successfully controlling (perhaps I'm not getting
enough attention from my wife, say) and, second, identification of the
reason for the failure of control (internal conflict, insuperable
disturbance or skill failure).
You make an important point, Rick. You remind me that since emotions are
perceptions, we do indeed sometimes try to control them as if they
themselves are a problem. But the emotional feelings will not go away until
the frustration of control from which they arise is remedied. I think what
most people mean when they talk about controlling their emotions is setting
up an internal conflict to hide the fact (from others or from themselves)
that they are afraid, angry, or whatever. This, of course, further
frustrates whatever it is they want to do. It's like trying to fix the
horrible noise your car makes when you start it by removing the battery.
David G. (2002.11.03.1306 EST) makes the point that sometimes the emotional
state is so extreme that chemical means are needed to calm things down
enough to accomplish psychotherapy. As he knows, I am deeply suspicious of
the claims made by the pill-pushers, though I grudgingly admit that there
could be cases where he is right. I have seen (and others have too) abrupt
changes in emotional state during the MOL, just upon changing the point of
view -- I doubt that any pill could have worked any faster in the cases
I've seen. Have you seen that, too, David?
Best,
Bill P.