Full-Fledged Social PCT Model from an unexpected source!

[Nicolas M Kirchberger 2019.11.24.08:05 ET]
Unbelievable, has anyone else heard of that?
Christian psychologists came up with this full-fledged social control model in the 80s and put a christian theology bent on it.
If we remove the christian thing we get a great PCT-like model of social interaction.
I suggest you look at the free video session based on the book here on YouTube:
<https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otU0JCv4gz0&list=PLDd-nUjEEZ7ePqg4B1vv7cvSgmGXinMx6&index=1>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otU0JCv4gz0&list=PLDd-nUjEEZ7ePqg4B1vv7cvSgmGXinMx6&index=1

And you can also check out the book here at <https://www.amazon.com/dp/0310351804/>https://www.amazon.com/dp/0310351804/
These concepts are very important for success and happiness in work, family, romance, children, friends, etc, and they relate heavily to PCT as you’ll see..
Nicolas M Kirchberger

Errr, I can see a similar stance, also not too dissimilar, ironically from a humanist approach to relationships, but I can't see anything that makes it more similar to PCT than any other theory or approach by a well-informed psychologist who knows something about human nature and the relevance of 'control'?

[Nicolas M Kirchberger 2019.11.24.08:05 ET]
Unbelievable, has anyone else heard of that?
Christian psychologists came up with this full-fledged social control model in the 80s and put a christian theology bent on it.
If we remove the christian thing we get a great PCT-like model of social interaction.
I suggest you look at the free video session based on the book here on YouTube:

<https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otU0JCv4gz0&list=PLDd-nUjEEZ7ePqg4B1vv7cvSgmGXinMx6&index=1&gt;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otU0JCv4gz0&list=PLDd-nUjEEZ7ePqg4B1vv7cvSgmGXinMx6&index=1

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On Fri, Jul 26, 2019 at 4:24 PM "Nicolas M. Kirchberger" <<mailto:csgnet@lists.illinois.edu>csgnet@lists.illinois.edu> wrote:

And you can also check out the book here at <https://www.amazon.com/dp/0310351804/&gt;https://www.amazon.com/dp/0310351804/
These concepts are very important for success and happiness in work, family, romance, children, friends, etc, and they relate heavily to PCT as you’ll see..
Nicolas M Kirchberger

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Dr Warren Mansell
Reader in Clinical Psychology
School of Health Sciences
2nd Floor Zochonis Building
University of Manchester
Oxford Road
Manchester M13 9PL
Email: <mailto:warren.mansell@manchester.ac.uk>warren.mansell@manchester.ac.uk

Tel: +44 (0) 161 275 8589

Website: <Redirect | Faculty of Biology, Medicine and Health | The University of Manchester

Check <http://www.pctweb.org>www.pctweb.org for further information on Perceptual Control Theory

Well, Dr Cloud’s model put an heavy emphasis on the communication and negotiation of perceptual references among free agents. Also his vocabulary is also very cybernetics-like.
He also gives specific techniques in order to achieve « reference-level » in relationship by increasingly keeping the good stuff in and the bad stuff out as much as possible. This is the equivalent of reducing and managing errors and noise in a control system.
Dr Cloud’s model appears much more clearer and to the point than other models of psychology I know who say basically the same thing but have less detailed tips and explanations about how to achieve this. :slight_smile:
Nicolas
Le 26 juill. 2019 11:36 -0400, Warren Mansell <wmansell@gmail.com>, a écrit :

Errr, I can see a similar stance, also not too dissimilar, ironically from a humanist approach to relationships, but I can't see anything that makes it more similar to PCT than any other theory or approach by a well-informed psychologist who knows something about human nature and the relevance of 'control'?

[Nicolas M Kirchberger 2019.11.24.08:05 ET]
Unbelievable, has anyone else heard of that?
Christian psychologists came up with this full-fledged social control model in the 80s and put a christian theology bent on it.
If we remove the christian thing we get a great PCT-like model of social interaction.
I suggest you look at the free video session based on the book here on YouTube:

<https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otU0JCv4gz0&list=PLDd-nUjEEZ7ePqg4B1vv7cvSgmGXinMx6&index=1&gt;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otU0JCv4gz0&list=PLDd-nUjEEZ7ePqg4B1vv7cvSgmGXinMx6&index=1

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On Fri, Jul 26, 2019 at 4:24 PM "Nicolas M. Kirchberger" <<mailto:csgnet@lists.illinois.edu>csgnet@lists.illinois.edu> wrote:

And you can also check out the book here at <https://www.amazon.com/dp/0310351804/&gt;https://www.amazon.com/dp/0310351804/
These concepts are very important for success and happiness in work, family, romance, children, friends, etc, and they relate heavily to PCT as you’ll see..
Nicolas M Kirchberger

--
Dr Warren Mansell
Reader in Clinical Psychology
School of Health Sciences
2nd Floor Zochonis Building
University of Manchester
Oxford Road
Manchester M13 9PL
Email: <mailto:warren.mansell@manchester.ac.uk>warren.mansell@manchester.ac.uk

Tel: +44 (0) 161 275 8589

Website: <Redirect | Faculty of Biology, Medicine and Health | The University of Manchester

Check <http://www.pctweb.org>www.pctweb.org for further information on Perceptual Control Theory

[Rick Marken 2019-07-26_18:24:13]

NK: Well, Dr Cloud’s model put an heavy emphasis on the communication and negotiation of perceptual references among free agents. Also his vocabulary is also very cybernetics-like.

RM: It's not the vocabulary, it's the model!Â
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NK: He also gives specific techniques in order to achieve « reference-level » in relationship by increasingly keeping the good stuff in and the bad stuff out as much as possible. This is the equivalent of reducing and managing errors and noise in a control system.

RM: Well, this is where the wheels really come off. PCT notes (and accounts for the fact that) there is no specific way to bring any perception -- be it the state of a relationship or anything else -- to a reference level. The techniques (outputs) that are needed depend on the nature of the prevailing circumstances (the disturbances) that also affect that perception.Â
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Rick
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Dr Cloud’s model appears much more clearer and to the point than other models of psychology I know who say basically the same thing but have less detailed tips and explanations about how to achieve this. :slight_smile:

Nicolas

Le 26 juill. 2019 11:36 -0400, Warren Mansell <<mailto:wmansell@gmail.com>wmansell@gmail.com>, a écrit :

Errr, I can see a similar stance, also not too dissimilar, ironically from a humanist approach to relationships, but I can't see anything that makes it more similar to PCT than any other theory or approach by a well-informed psychologist who knows something about human nature and the relevance of 'control'?Â

[Nicolas M Kirchberger 2019.11.24.08:05 ET]
Unbelievable, has anyone else heard of that?
Christian psychologists came up with this full-fledged social control model in the 80s and put a christian theology bent on it.Â
If we remove the christian thing we get a great PCT-like model of social interaction.
I suggest you look at the free video session based on the book here on YouTube:

<https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otU0JCv4gz0&list=PLDd-nUjEEZ7ePqg4B1vv7cvSgmGXinMx6&index=1&gt;https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otU0JCv4gz0&list=PLDd-nUjEEZ7ePqg4B1vv7cvSgmGXinMx6&index=1

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On Fri, Jul 26, 2019 at 12:47 PM "Nicolas M. Kirchberger" <<mailto:csgnet@lists.illinois.edu>csgnet@lists.illinois.edu> wrote:

On Fri, Jul 26, 2019 at 4:24 PM "Nicolas M. Kirchberger" <<mailto:csgnet@lists.illinois.edu>csgnet@lists.illinois.edu> wrote:

And you can also check out the book here at <https://www.amazon.com/dp/0310351804/&gt;https://www.amazon.com/dp/0310351804/
These concepts are very important for success and happiness in work, family, romance, children, friends, etc, and they relate heavily to PCT as you’ll see..
Nicolas M Kirchberger

--
Dr Warren Mansell
Reader in Clinical Psychology
School of Health Sciences
2nd Floor Zochonis Building
University of Manchester
Oxford Road
Manchester M13 9PL
Email: <mailto:warren.mansell@manchester.ac.uk>warren.mansell@manchester.ac.uk
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Tel: +44 (0) 161 275 8589
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Website: <Redirect | Faculty of Biology, Medicine and Health | The University of Manchester

Check <http://www.pctweb.org>www.pctweb.org for further information on Perceptual Control Theory

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Richard S. MarkenÂ
"Perfection is achieved not when you have nothing more to add, but when you
have nothing left to take away.�
                --Antoine de Saint-Exupery

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