List Moderation (was Re: Love and Hate)

[From Rick Marken (2003.12.09.1010)]

Bruce Gregory (2003.12.09.1250)--

> Rick Marken (2003.12.09.0925)
>
> And I think exactly this kind of discussion was taking place on CSG
> until a couple weeks ago, when Bruce Gregory returned with his persistent baiting of
> me

If you want to be taken seriously, I propose that you provide examples
of my "persistent baiting." Otherwise the moderator may not know what
to censor.

I'm happy to leave it up to the moderator. When I'm the one doing the baiting (or responding
nastily to whatever baiting gets through) I expect that the moderator will keep my posts out
as well. It's a form of censorship I am willing to put up with for the sake of having civil
and informative discussions on CSGNet.

Best

Rick

[From Bruce Gregory (2003.12.09.1335)]

Rick Marken (2003.12.09.1010)

I'm happy to leave it up to the moderator. When I'm the one doing the
baiting (or responding
nastily to whatever baiting gets through) I expect that the moderator
will keep my posts out
as well. It's a form of censorship I am willing to put up with for the
sake of having civil
and informative discussions on CSGNet.

Humor me if you will, Rick. Give me some examples of my persistent
baiting. I'll be glad to censor myself, but I need some examples of
what baiting looks like to you. In the interests of civil
communication, if for no other reason, please.

Bruce Gregory

"Everything that needs to be said has already been said. But since no
one was listening, everything must be said again."

                                                                                Andre Gide

[From Rick Marken (2003.12.09.1105)]

Bruce Gregory (2003.12.09.1335)--

Humor me if you will, Rick. Give me some examples of my persistent
baiting.

It's not worth the time. It may be that your meaness is invisible to everyone but me.

Let's just say that I would feel more comfortable with a moderated list. If a moderator sees
nothing wrong with your posts and everything wrong with mine then so be it. It will nice to
know that I'm not contributing to what so many on this list see as its unpleasant atmosphere.

Best

Rick

[From Bruce Gregory (2003.12.09.1550)]

Rick Marken (2003.12.09.1105)

Bruce Gregory (2003.12.09.1335)--

Humor me if you will, Rick. Give me some examples of my persistent
baiting.

It's not worth the time. It may be that your meaness is invisible to
everyone but me.

This sensitivity to unintended insults seems to make you the obvious
choice for moderator. You've got my vote.

Bruce Gregory

"Everything that needs to be said has already been said. But since no
one was listening, everything must be said again."

                                                                                Andre Gide

[Martin Taylor 2003.12.09.1647]

As a drop-in, drop-out contributor to CSGnet for many years, maybe I
shouldn't comment on the "moderator" issue, but I will anyway.

If there is to be a moderator, make sure the "volunteer" ("you, you,
and you":slight_smile: knows that it is going to take not only diplomatic skill
but an awful lot of time.

Personally, I empathize with all sides of this tempest in the
CSG-pot. As a non-target, I found certain postings by all parties to
be unnecessarily inflammatory (even if the author had not seen them
that way). Bill P's recommendation not to post anything written while
in an emotional state might help, but there's another way to achieve
much the same thing. Leave messages that contain any non-technical
material unposted until after a night's sleep.

Like Bill, I don't like moderation of an e-mail list. But they can
work well. I belong to the System Dynamics (moderated) list. CSGnet
does some things better, other things worse. What CSGnet does better
is to gently warn newbies of the posting conventions, such as the
time-stamp to start the message, and the quote of the time-stamp in a
response. I sometimes find it quite hard to link messages on the SD
list with what they are commenting on. What the SD list does better
is to keep focus on the technical questions. I don't know whether the
moderation or the moderator has this effect, but it does make the
list a more pleasant one to read.

One inherent difference between any CSG mailing list and the SD list
is the fact that there are a lot of "canonical forms" of SD, but only
one of PCT. The SD list has many contributors with the status of
"guru." CSG list has one plus a "loose canon" (to dredge up some
ten-year-old history). At least some of the unpleasantness of recent
postings has probably been enhanced by this. Changing to a moderated
list won't help.

On balance, I come down on the side of "social moderation" rather
than formal moderation. If we could develop a convention similar to
the one we use to get newbies to post their time-stamps, we might get
a list that we could point our friends toward. That convention is to
encourage non-involved readers to point out to a poster that their
words might be misconstrued as provocative (or worse, correctly so
construed). That kind of intervention might slowly bias the
conversations toward the more purely technical and less hurt feelings.

As Rick said a couple of weeks ago when Bill said he and I were
doomed to fight--we can argue enthusiastically about technical
matters, while still thinking of each other as good people. Good
technical fights, particularly those that end in agreement, are a way
to advance a science (or even a technology, sometimes). I remember
the first time I met Rick was after an e-mail fight, before I knew he
was really a nice guy. My name badge said "Canon Fodder", and I think
the joke made it easy to make friends. Jokes can be useful, but only
if they are obviously jokes--and in e-mail it's hard to write a joke
that is guaranteed to be seen as one.

I'm rumbling ... rambling, sorry--I didn't mean to pick a fight.

Martin

[From Rick Marken (2003.12.09.1515)]

Martin Taylor (2003.12.09.1647) --

If there is to be a moderator, make sure the "volunteer" ("you, you,
and you":slight_smile: knows that it is going to take not only diplomatic skill
but an awful lot of time.

Yes. I think that's enough to convince me that the idea of a moderator for
CSGNet, whether one thinks it a good one or not, is simply not feasible.
I guess I'll spend tonight dipping my madeleine into the tea of the "Love
and Hate" thread and try to explain what it looked like from my
perspective.

Best

Marcel

[From Bill Powers (2003.12.09.1649 MST)]

Rick Marken (2003.12.09.1515)--

I guess I'll spend tonight dipping my madeleine into the tea of the "Love
and Hate" thread and try to explain what it looked like from my
perspective.

If you adopt my recommendations, don't bother. The official verdict on all
such arguments is, "Nobody cares how right you were." I suspect that's been
the reaction of most readers of CSGnet anyway.

Best,

Bill P.