[From Fred Nickols (2001.08.29 0929)] --
I've snipped a bit of an interaction between Bill Powers
and Bruce Nevin (see below) about which I have a
question. I've put the question after the snippet.
Bill Powers (2001.08.29.1526 MDT)]
Bruce Nevin (2001.08.29 16:02 EDT)--
>Yes. The question is, what else are they controlling
that matters more to
them?
Lots of things. If you're criticized by someone you
love, the loss of
control from agreeing to change the criticized
behavior might be outweighed
by your desire for the other to go on loving you -- an
internal conflict
decided in favor of the subsystem with the highest
loop gain. When people
criticize your behavior, they don't usually know (or
care) what you were
using it for; they don't know what they're asking you
to give up control
of, at least by that means. It's like being criticized
for scratching an
excruciating itch in public. The critic doesn't care
about the itch; only
about the scratching.
>The proposal is that the CV might be ability to rely
on others for
>cooperation, which is related reciprocally in the
course of time to them
>being able to rely on you.
Yes, that would be one reason for deciding to change
the behavior, even
though it was serving some other purpose for you. But
we don't rely on
_all_ others for cooperation, do we? Some we care
about, some we don't care
about. Excessive social conformity is as much a
disorder as too little.
Whether we give in to social pressure to change our
behavior depends a
great deal on just what change is being demanded. An
honest cop might be
ostracized by his colleagues for not being on the
take, but if honesty is
that important, he will probably not change his
behavior.
When PCTers talk about "caring more" or "weight" with
respect to CVs, are we talking about ordinary priorities
or are we talking about CVs at different levels. In the
case of the "honest cop" above, are we talking about
honesty mattering more (in commonplace language) but in
PCT-speak, indicating that being honest is at a higher
level in the hierarchy than getting money? Just trying
to understand...
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Fred Nickols
nickols@att.net