Hello,
Here's my two cents:
I find that when you "do something to people" like punish them for doing
something you percieve as wrong or bad, you will never reach your goal (in
this case stopping or eliminating abortions).
In my experience, you have to "do something with" the person such as
talking or engaged in some activity. And it's not the action of "doing
something with" that will help you but rather the result that happens when
you do "something with" someone. A change occurs when you "do something
with" someone.
If you ask me,"What change occurs?" The answer is, "It depends. Why
don't you try it and tell me about it."
Hope this helps
Jason Perrino