[From Dag Forssell (920511.22:45)]
Rick Marken (920511 14:30)
What do you mean by "standards"???
In my posts I have tried very hard to make the connection to the
Principle level (as detailed in Powers' and Robertson's book). The word
value is in there too. To Ed, it is at the level of Understanding and
Belief, if I understand him correctly. I think it belongs at the
principle/standards level, if it belongs at all. It signifies a judgement
as to what is important among the things you understand/believe.
Please refer to my original post on standards for a graphic
representation of my interpretation.
I would suggest that religions do try to teach people where to set their
reference for certain perceptions. I think this is not a good way to
help people to function well-- in fact, its just about the worst thing
you can do to many people.
As I have talked to you and read your posts for a long time, I get the
impression that you think that "people will do what they will do"
regardless, and that as a fellow human being you have no business
influencing them. You did admit to me once, that you just might have
influenced your kids along the way. How? Did you per chance teach them
where they might profitably set their reference perceptions, so that they
might function better?
Dr. Spock told a generation of parents to leave their kids alone, and let
them do whatever they pleased. I suppose those kids earn the highest
incomes and have the happiest marriages now. Surely they must function
well, since no-one tried to "control" them when they were little.
I think that just about the only thing that separates humans from animals
is the ability to suggest reference perceptions which the young can adopt
because they choose to.
Greg Williams (920508) recently commented on the tendency of PCT debaters
to bury their heads in the sand, when it comes to "social control."
Influence is a form of social control, for sure. Why be afraid of it?
Influence is for real, and it is important. The world is not populated
only by well behaved, adult PCT academics, who object to being
"controlled" by others. To pretend that positive influence through
teaching "standards" or "principles" is A) impossible or B) bad is a cop
out. Parenting, management, teaching, leadership and counseling are about
that.
When you make an earnest effort to help people manage themselves better,
(because they have hired you for that or because they are your kids), you
are faced with the real question of how to influence them positively and
effectively. You cannot duck and talk theory alone, but it sure helps to
have a good one. You cannot afford the time and confusion of dealing with
everything all at once. You have to figure out a good place to start. I
know of no better application of PCT and set of suggestions on that
subject than Ed's book: Freedom From Stress. Have you read it? Ed shows
how to question people so that they will reason with themselves, but he
also suggests and teaches. Ed is a master of positive influence.
I have wanted to try on the net my thought that the level of principles
is key, and the suggestion that there are some well defined, universally
acceptable reference perceptions or "standards" that have worked well for
a lot of people over time. Character education is, I think, a very useful
form of "social control" that is vitally important, no matter where it
comes from. Of course, it is also important that this same character
education is not misused, as historically has been the case in many
times, religions, places and cultures. Greg might call it a double-edged
sword. But the total absence is a disaster, for sure. That is why I think
it makes a good subject for discussion.
Wayne Hershberger 920511
......reflect upon the two concepts, energy and information, used in
your first sentence?. Do we experience the energy or the information,
or neither?
I recognize that my nervous system exists as part of that "Boss Reality"
we talk about. But the only thing I will ever know about it is by way of
the intensity signals. (Ed uses the word "sensing energy," which is
offered as a synonym. Clinicians take liberties with the terminology when
dealing with their customers). I cannot know what causes those intensity
signals. The term intensity signal is already a perception. My nerves
construct information from the intensity signals. As I study the nerves,
I form perceptions of them. I experience the information, and that
experience is a perception. It's ALL perception.
Do we, instead, experience phenomena (the constituents of time and
space), as you imply in your second sentence. How are the three
concepts related? Energy, information, and phenomena.
You are using the word phenomenon in some meaning or perception of yours
which is far from what I had in mind. You can strike the word from my
sentence. I was just talking about Systems concepts. A level of
perception.
Anyhow, "phenomena (the constituents of time and space)" are perceptions.
You perceive time. You perceive space. The phenomenon of control is a
perceptual construct.
It's all perception!
Dag Forssell
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