[From Bill Powers (980430.1204 MDT)]
Tim Carey (980430.1830)--
[From Bill Powers (980429.1751 MDT)]
The children do not choose to walk through the front gate.
How on earth can you substantiate a statement like that. _All_ children
_all_ the time are being forced to go to school?
The law says they have to go to school, here in the U.S. at least. It
doesn't matter whether the child wants to go to school. The child WILL go
to school (or something worse) whether it wants to or not.
It might surprise you to
know that some kids I've spoken to actually enjoy going to school. Even the
"bad" kids I worked with liked going to school (much to their teachers
dismay).
No surprise. The point is that they will go to school whether they like it
or not. If they like it, they will go to school. If they don't like it,
they will go to school. The ones who like to go to school don't experience
being forced to go, because they're doing what the coercers want: zero
error, for the coercers. It's the ones who don't want to go who cause an
error in the coercers, and experience the physical force that makes them go.
Do we assume that every kid sitting in every classroom is sitting there
because of force or the threat of force?
No. If they happen to want to be in class, they experience neither force
nor the threat of force. The coercers are perceiving the behavior they want
to perceive, and, experiencing no error, they produce no action on those
children. But they're always watching for error: if a "good" child fails to
produce the wanted behavior, the coercer will immediately take action.
The statement made above seems very hard to reconcile with a PCT view of
the world. I thought part of the rigour of PCT required that for something
to be considered important it had to be occurring 95% of the time. Are you
saying that at least 95% of the kids who walk through the front gate feel
forced to do it?
Please listen. Children who want to be in class do not elicit any physical
force from the coercers, because they are not disturbing the coercers.
Control systems do not act when they are experiencing zero error.
Do people only drive on the correct side of the road because they all feel
forced to do it?
I would guess they drive on the correct side to avoid head-on collisions;
however, if they violate the law about which side to drive on, they are
subject to legal coercion. The cops are always watching for them to drive
on the wrong side. Good thing, too. Drunks driving up an off-ramp are very
dangerous to everyone.
Their options are limited by the intentions of the adults involved. The
adults are responsible for limiting the options, and for using whatever
means they use to assure that the children can't choose the forbidden
options.Now this is sounding more like PCT ... "the intentions of the adults". What
if the intention of the adults is to help the kid succeed? What if they
think their job is to constantly look for ways to reach the kid and find
ways to help him "make it" in school. Is coercion still going on?
Yes, if they use overwhelming physical force to cause the children to
behave as they want them to behave. That doesn't sound much like what you
describe them doing, so I guess the right answer is no. But you could
figure that out yourself, if you would take my definition of coercion
seriously.
Does an intervention team ever conclude that the child's desire not to be
in school should be honored? Does the child actually have any say at all
with respect to returning?In my experience the intervention team would try to figure out what the kid
is controlling for. As you would be well aware, people have lots of goals
going on all the time. Where in the hierarchy would "staying out of school"
fit.
Wanting to do something incompatible with school, such as travelling,
hunting, exploring, living off the land, working full-time to make money.
Or simply avoiding unpleasant relationships with teachers or other
children. That would fit wherever you think such things would fit in the
hierarchy.
My approach, and the one I teach when I work with schools is to
figure out where that goal is coming from. What is the kid achieving by
staying out of school? A great application of MOL don't you think?
Absolutely. But are you determined to keep at it until the child is back in
school, or is there any point where you would say, "I guess this child
simply finds nothing attractive in school, and we should get off his back"?
I know I haven't answered your question and that's because in my experience
it hasn't happened.
It will happen some day. What you do defines what theory of human and
social nature you subscribe to. If your policy is to keep working on the
child until the child is back in school, you are on the edge of coercion,
because as an adult you can probably beat the child down into submission by
superior logic and the simple pressure of your determination, which a child
has trouble matching.
I have never met or worked with a kid who just didn't
want to go to school out right. I've worked with lots of kids who say that
they don't want to go to school, but after talking to them for a while they
always come up with a reason: they are failing; they are being bullied;
their friends are at another school; there mum is sick and they want to
stay at home and look after her; etc., etc.
And you reject all those reasons, without seriously considering whether
they are justifiable reasons?
You're talking about "RTP kids," but if all the kids were RTP kids, why
would you ever need RTP? What tests the program and shows its underlying
structure is what happens to the hard cases.Sure. Isn't school an individual experience for every kid? You're
absolutely right about the hard cases and when I'm in schools I talk all
the time about the idea that these kids are the ones who will demonstrate
how well the personnel in the school have a handle on the process and the
theory. Some schools start to do things to these kids (some form of "nice"
coercion); other schools start to investigate what the kid might be
controlling for and help the kid experience success at school.The only way to see if they're operating within a coercive school system
is to see what happens when some individuals rock the boat by not playing
the game by the rules of RTP.And when these individuals are coerced (if they're coerced) does this mean
we have a coercive system, or does this mean that their experience at that
moment is one of coercion?
You're hearing "coercive system" to mean a system in which overwhelming
physical force is being applied all of the time, or regularly. But you can
have a coercive system in which no force at all is being applied to the
children for long periods of time, for the simple reason that the penalties
for failure to comply with the rules are so onerous that the children don't
dare break the rules. If the penalty for disrupting a class or appearing
unhappy were ten minutes of torture, you would probably have a student body
that never disrupted and (when any adult was watching) appeared happy.
RTP wouldn't work if the teachers let the disruptors stay in the class.
So it is _necessary_ to coerce this kid and get him out of the class even
against his will.And if the administrator comes down and tells him that his choices are to
go to RTC or have his parents called and he then walks down to RTC is this
still against his will or is he controlling for not having his parents
called?
He's controlling for not having his parents called (we're assuming for the
sake of argument), but only because he considers that alternative to be
worse than going to the RTC. He wouldn't voluntarily choose either one.
This is a forced choice. Would you rather have your left foot or your right
ear cut off? If you don't choose your left foot to part with, then you must
have voluntarily chosen to have your right ear cut off. OK, if that's what
you want, but don't complain to me later that you didn't have any choice.
That's the kind of reasoning you're offering here.
Behind it is the physical power to make a person choose one alternative
instead of neither ("I'm not going to the RTC, and I'm not going home,
either" is not permitted). Why would you choose to have either a foot or an
ear cut off? Only because whoever is offering you this choice has the
physical power to make you choose one or the other ("We're assuming that if
you don't make a choice, you want your foot cut off, and that's what we
will do if you don't express a preference. So it's still your choice.").
This is an age-old ploy for passing responsibility for your own actions
onto someone else. Basically, you present a person with two choices,
neither of which the person wants to make. Because you have the physical
power, you can force the person to choose one or the other, and forbid the
person to reject both choices. One way to do this is to pick one
alternative as the default choice: not making a choice is treated as making
a specific choice.
Then, of course, later on, you can point out to the person that he actually
had a choice and made it, so the outcome is his responsibility, not yours.
This is the worst kind of twisted and self-serving logic. "Would you like
to give me a list of your confederates, or would you like me to torture you
some more? It's your free choice." Who in the sane world would accept the
torturer's defense that the victim asked to be tortured?
You can fool young children with this kind of deformed logic, because
children aren't very good at logic, yet. You can convince them that they
have freely chosen whatever it was, when in fact you gave them no viable
choice at all. That makes them easier to control, because they believe they
really did have a choice and, perhaps, don't want to contradict themselves.
As far as I know Bill, teachers in my state are not allowed to use physical
force with kids unless there is a safety issue. A classroom disruption
would not constitute a safety issue and so the teacher would not be able to
use force. Many of the kids here know their rights (and isn't it curious
that the "badder" the kid the more aware of their rights they seem to be
;-)).
So how do the teachers get the student into the RTC if the student refuses
to go? I presume that they call in some higher authority, like an
administrator. If the student stands up against this display of higher
authority, the administrator, I presume, can get legal authorization to
apply physical force, or to call in law enforcement people who are
authorized to do it. The student simply cannot win: eventually the forces
raised against him will force compliance no matter how hard the student
struggles against them. The coercion is always there in the background,
ready to force compliance if it is not given "voluntarily." How far the
process goes toward physically laying hands on the student and literally
dragging him away depends on how long the student can maintain his nerve
against the mounting threats.
I doubt that many young children will be able to hold out very long against
these threats, if they don't give in immediately. Older children, like in
high school, would be more likely to carry it all the way to the violent
conclusion.
This is perhaps another difference between us Bill ... I consider I always
have a choice. For me it's not the choice that's the issue but the
consequences of each of the options.
You do have a choice, as long as you are permitted to act. But try this one
on:
Tim, I am giving you two choices: (1) cease to send posts to CSGnet, or (2)
agree that I am right about everything. It's up to you; I'm giving you a
real choice, so you're not having anything forced on you, are you? You
always have a choice, and I am giving you one. Of course if you refuse to
make this choice I will take it that you're choosing to stop posting to the
net and pull the plug on you accordingly. But it's your choice -- what will
it be?
What I'm missing is how some reliance on
coercion, translates into a coercive system all the time for everyone.
Coercion is not the active application of force to everyone all of the
time. It is a system, adopted by those in power, in which deviation from a
specific behavior automatically results in the use of overwhelming physical
force. It removes any choices, by making choice irrelevant. If you choose
to do what is demanded, no force is applied. If you don't, force is applied
and you end up doing what is demanded anyway. Your choice is therefore a
mockery, since only one outcome can be chosen: there is no real choice.
No civilization has
EVER figured out how to do without coercion. You don't have to like it to
admit that you sometimes use coercion for the simple reason that youcan't
think of anything else that would work.
How about negotiation and compromise with a dash of MOL?
Fine, I'd like to see it tried. It's never been tried on a large scale that
I know of. All social systems of any size are based on coercion -- that is,
on the rule of law.
On the contrary, the rules of RTP are set up so they must know they have
no other realistic options.This seems to contradict what you said earlier about the kid not wanting to
go to the RTC but do other things like stay in class, or attack the
teacher. If the only two options the kid has in his head are class or RTC,
then for that kid, they are the options aren't they?
They are not options if they lead to exactly the same outcome: ending up in
the RTC. You are not given the option of staying in class AND disrupting at
the same time. Yet this may be the option you have in your head, the one
you would prefer to exercise. It's only after you finally believe that this
option is unavailable that you give in and go to the RTC (or go into open
rebellion). You give in when you admit that you have no choice.
That depends a lot on the systems concept reference you have of freedom.
OK. My system concept is that one is able to act to make the experienced
world be closer to the world one desires to experience.
Yes, dammit. The coercive machinery is built into the laws that say you
either go to school willingly or you go unwillingly.And where exactly does this coercive machinery exist for an invidual living
control system?
In the legal system and all the people who act to enforce the laws.
What you're not understanding here is the idea that coercion is built
into the school systemAnd what you haven't explained to me is where this "school system" is.
It is in the written laws stating that there shall be schools, and how the
schools are to be run, and in the penalties prescribed for people who
violate these laws, and in the people who administer these penalties. It is
also in the desires of teachers and administrators and parents.
When does the school system actually become coercive?
As soon as people start enforcing the laws or their own wishes by means of
overwhelming physical force or the credible threat thereof.
Should we do a year
by year kind of check? How about the year before an individual starts any
formal schooling? As a three year old is their school system coercive? What
about as a four year old in their first year of preschool? How about as a
five year old in grade one? Does the coercive school system exist yet?
The coercion doesn't depend on the coercee. As I have said at length in
this post already.
>It seems that PCT has gone out the window momentarily. How do you know
that controlling someone's behaviour is _necessarily_ coercive?
It is coercive if it involves applying such a large disturbance that the
other person can't resist it. That is straight PCT.
Coercion goes beyond controlling behavior. In its purest form it consists
of _ignoring_ the other person's control systems,So if you ignore the other person's control system how can you tell whether
or not you're coercing them? What if they're controlling for being coerced?
Is it still coercion then?
It doesn't matter what the other person does. If you want the person to go
up the stairs, you attach a rope to the person (while three other people
hold the person down), fasten the other end to a winch, and turn on the
motor. The person will go up the stairs. Whether the person cooperates or
resists makes no difference and is of no interest. You decide that the
person is to go up the stairs and do what is necessary to make the person
go up the stairs. If the other person says he wanted to go up the stairs
anyway, you just laugh. It makes no difference what he wanted. That's what
real coercion is like.
This is what I'm having difficulty with. From this description, it sounds
as though coecion is some aspect of an interaction between two people that
a third person could observe. I find this very curious.
It might take a little research, but yes, another person could observe it.
I could observe you being held down, and realize that one person can't
resist three determined people. I can observe the attachment of the winch,
and see that there's no way you could resist its pull. And when the winch
is turned on, I could see that your intentions or efforts have absolutely
no effect on your movement up the stairs. The winch totally determines your
position. That would be very reasonable to call coercion on the part of the
person or people who set all this up.
Well, consider the mother who rushes out into the street and snatches her
toddler out of the traffic. I'd call that coercion. The mother isn't
considering at all where the child wants to be, and where the child ends
up is totally due to the mother's actions. So the child's control systems
have been, for the moment, completely overridden by the mother's action.
The mother's intention is the safety of the child, and the child's
intentions are irrelevant.Aren't you making a big assumption about what the kid is controlling for?
It doesn't matter what the kid is controlling for. The kid can't control
anything when the mother picks her up. Coercion negates control, makes it
irrelevant.
Isn't it possible that the kid has learned that looking like you're going
to run out on the road is a great way to get mum to notice you and to pick
you up?
Yes, this is possible. You can sucker an adult into behaving coercively if
you want to. It's a little risky, because at some point you actually lose
control and are at the mercy of the coercer. The protesters did this in
1968 at the Chicago Democratic Convention. They broke the rules and taunted
the police until the police went into a frenzy of coercion. There were
broken bones and skulls, and serious internal injuries, and severe fines
and jail terms as a result. I expect that many of the protesters were
dismayed to find out just what this exercise had cost them.
I've seen kids do this with hot things like saucepans. The parent
tells them not to touch and they keep putting their hand near the saucepan.
Do they really want to touch the saucepan, or are they controlling for
parental attention? Wouldn't we need the Test?
Sure. But at the time when the parent seizes the kid and yanks him away
from the hot saucepan, there's no way to do the test on the kid: there is
no position control system in the kid while the parent is controlling the
kid's position.
No, you haven't been coerced, because you never caused any error in the
"coercion system," whatever or whoever it was. But you were living in a
coercive system, and if you had ever broken those rules, it would have
made itself known to you.So am I just born with a coercive system in my head?
The coercive system is not in your head. It's in the coercer's head.
I don't understand your distinction between mild coercion and real coercion.
Either the threat of force is there or not. How can the one system have
such differing amounts of coercion?
If a person has experienced real coercion -- direct violent application of
physical force that totally overrides one's intentions and efforts -- it is
likely that this experience will be so unpleasant that the mere threat of
coercion becomes enough to force compliance in the future. So the coercer
finds that it is not necessary to keep applying the maximum force to the
other person; simply stating the intention to do so accomplishes the same
result. This makes control by the coercer easier.
I'm afraid this wouldn't help because in my head the existence of choices
and limits doesn't equal coercion.
It's not the options or the limits that constitute coercion. It's what
you're prepared to do to make sure that the person chooses only from the
offered options, and stays within the limits. If there is any way for the
child to reject all your offered options, or go outside the limits, then
there is no coercion. Coercion arises when you are willing to use direct
physical force to prevent the child from doing anything but what you want.
I'm really not trying to be obtuse, I
just don't get it. If I decide to go to the snow for the holidays, I can't
at the same time go to the beach.
Where is the direct application of physical force by one person to another
in that?
If I decide to spend money on object A, I
can't at the same time spend the same amount of money on object B.
Same question.
I think
that the Boss Reality we exist in at the moment is one of choices and
limits. Are we living in a coercive universe? If I let go of something it
will fall, is gravity coercive?
Same question.
I don't know of any situation, anywhere where you can do anything you want.
Our goals are never unlimited but are always defined in part by the
environment we are in. I don't see this as coercion, I just see it as life.
Me too. I see coercion ONLY when one person applies overwhelming physical
force to another, to get what the coercing person wants.
I'd say that calling it physical force is just a description. If I twist
your arm behind you and force you to march out of the room, or drag you,
or pick you up and carry you, I'd say that is physical force being used.
And my definition of coercion doesn't leave much room for interpretation,
does it?Does the fact that I might have been controlling for you to do that have
any influence on whether the act is coercive or not?
None whatsoever. When coercion begins, what you're controlling for becomes
irrelevant, because your actions can no longer affect your perceptions.
They are overridden by the coercer's superior strength.
How about if I like a
little pain and I say things like "Gee, can't you get my arm any higher up
my back than that, what are you weak?!!" Am I now coercing you?
No. You are not applying overwhelming physical force to overpower my
efforts and make my intentions irrelevant.
Do we need the Test to find out whether or not it's coercion to the kid or
can we suddenly rely on observation of actions to tell what's going on. I
thought this was called the 'behavioural illusion'.
You keep attributing coercion to the kid's perceptions. Coercion is not a
perception that the kid controls. It's the means that the coercer uses to
force the kid to behave as the coercer desires, regardless of the kid's
goals. It's the coercer's way of controlling the coercer's perceptions.
OK, then that's coercion at least from someone's perspective, I'm just not
sure that it's coercion from the kids perspective.
What the kid experiences when coercion is going on is loss of control. The
coercer is controlling some variable, and the kid is prevented from
controlling it.
The kid may think it's a
contest, but as you're an adult with comparatively immense resources, the
kid can't win.I can tell you Bill that at least some teachers and some kids don't see it
this way. Some teachers definitely feel that they are losing and some kids
are relentless in how far they will go, they literally have teachers on the
end of a string. It isn't always physical force that wins a battle.
Right, but this may arise indirectly. The teachers are suffering coercion
in that the law forbids them to take the action that would (seem to) end
the problem: the direct application of force to the kids. If they do this,
the law will come down hard on them no matter what their excuse. The kids
know this, and in effect are using the irresistible force of the law as
their lever for coercing the teachers.
Of course if it's an RTP teacher, the problem doesn't arise. The second
disruption takes the kid out of the classroom, no matter what the kid tries
to do to resist. The Administrator, the cops, or a swat team -- whatever it
takes, the kid is out of there. The kids never get the chance to control
the teacher.
Sure, I can see that something like gravity is a regularity. I'm just
missing the part where coercion is a regularity.
I think that if you use my definition of coercion, you will easily be able
to identify it when it occurs.
Best,
Bill P.