[From Bruce Nevin (991207.1858 EST)]
To continue dispassionate discussion at the risk of one or another
convenient label being applied to me ...
Bill Powers (991202.0333 MDT)
The problem here, Bruce, is that you're thinking of the situation as a
legal contract between adults who are free to enter into it or opt out of
it. [...]
No, that is not how I am thinking of the situation. I view this as a
situation of teaching children (plural) how to make and keep a commitment
not to interfere with one another when they are learning.
What I want to know is why it's too much trouble to ask whether the child
is still committed to a rule you thought [she] was committed to earlier.
Because this would teach the opposite. It teaches that no commitment made
by the child can be or need be relied upon. It asserts the teacher's
mistrust of the child's competence to make and keep a commitment. And it
demonstrates that the teacher cannot keep a commitment, made just moments
or minutes before.
I say again, I am not happy with the "I see you have chosen" formulation,
but any proposed alternative must serve the same purpose. Making it solely
the teacher's rule, imposed under threat of coercion, is quite the opposite
of what is intended.
If you say that the RTP process could be abused as a cover for bullying,
you are quite right. No verbal formula or definition of process is
guaranteed to protect everyone from that. But just because education is
compulsory it does not follow that every relationship and interaction
within a school is coercive. It seems to me that at some point you have to
trust the teachers in the RTP school. An alternative is to abandon the
enterprise if you believe it is too deeply flawed.
But what you propose guarantees what you fear. It guarantees that the
relationship between teacher and student in the classroom will be coercive.
You propose making the RTP process a mere naked assertion of despotic
authority by the teacher ("I'm enforcing that rule, now," etc.), apparently
because you are convinced that this is the ineluctable character of the
teacher-student or adult-child relationship regardless of good intentions,
good training, and the cultivation of good relationships. This is human
nature, you seem to be saying, and it is incapable of change. With all due
respect, Bill, I don't buy that.
I view the disruptions in terms of a conflict within the child.
On one side is control of the sequence "distract someone then go to the RTC
to develop skill in not distracting people from learning". (I accept that
all the children as well as the teacher are controlling this. It is no more
complex than control of "If you are still moving when 'it' says 'red light'
and opens his eyes, then you're out." Note that it requires distinguishing
when people are learning from when they are not; distraction is fine at
other times in the RTP classroom, we are told.)
On the other side of the conflict is control of something else which has
the forseeable effect of distracting others. (Something that is clearly an
accident, like unintentionally dropping a book on the floor, is not
perceived as a disruption.)
The intent, as I see it, is to frame events in terms of this conflict
within the child. This conflict is the basis for a choice. The child
resolved the conflict by lowering the gain on control of "no distractions".
The reason for the verb "choose" is to affirm the child's responsibility
for controlling both sides of the conflict, not just the side that resulted
in distracting someone. So maybe there is some less objectionable way to do
that.
I hope this clarifies why calling RTP teachers lying hypocrites was just
way off base. I think we already know that it was terribly destructive.
Calling the interaction coercive appears to me to be an outgrowth of your
underlying assumptions about the nature of school and the nature of
adult-child relationships. Whether or not we agree about those assumptions,
they are a separate matter from use of the verb "choose" and what it
signifies. If the interaction is coercive, that is not affected one way or
another by the words used, and the recommendation of a different verbal
formula will not prevent the possibility of coercion. However, the
formulation you have recommended, on the contrary, guarantees it.
What
you should say, to get the lesson you're trying to teach across, is "The
rule I thought you had agreed to is that if you disrupt a second time, you
must go to the RTC. I'm enforcing that rule, now, and I hope you can work
out a way of not disrupting in the future, because if you do it again, I'll
enforce the rule again. I hope you do work it out, because I like having
you in my class. See you later."
Even this has punitive overtones.
Indeed it does. It points to the effect of distracting others, labelled as
a disruption. It doesn't point to the conflict in the child and nudge the
child to go up a level. It re-frames that conflict as an authoritative
confrontation between the child and the teacher enforcing the rule. Good
luck to the RTC teacher!
Here is one place I got an impression of some of your assumptions:
We're talking about a person who is in what we all agree
is a fundamentally coercive system, not by choice but by law. We're
talking about helping the [child] learn to live in that system, to see
its (supposed) advantages, and to avoid coming afoul of its hooks and
snares. I would also say we're teaching the person how to tolerate the
system, how to deal with it, and how to remain rational in the midst
of irrationality.
I read here your profound distrust of schools and teachers. I read here
your conviction that they lay ill-intended traps for children ("hooks and
snares"), that the apparent advantages of schools are illusory, and that
the school environment is filled with irrationality. I read that the best
that teachers can do is to help the child to slip through as little touched
by the experience as possible.
Is it possible, Bill, that these perceptions are not universal? And not
because those who do not share your view are duped or dull?
It seems to me that at some point you have to trust the teachers in the RTC
school. An alternative is to abandon an enterprise that you appear to
believe is deeply flawed.
We're talking, too, about a person who can be forgetful, who can be
distracted, who has volatile intentions that are not yet built into a
logical, orderly, and consistent structure -- a child.
Yes. And the child is learning to keep a commitment no more complex than
commitments kept on the playground -- which side you're on, what happens if
you play out of turn, what happens if you're caught off base, and so on.
These are not rules made up by a bully and imposed on everyone else.
The teacher is helping the child to build control structures for making and
keeping social commitments and for reducing conflict with others.
You say "When the rules constrain the choices to two, depending on the
value of a variable, you know much more than you would otherwise. The
person is making one choice, or the other, or they are no longer in the
game."
I think you're forgetting that the child does not have a choice about being
in the game.
Being out of the game is expulsion from school. I grew up with kids who
definitely, and by their own explicit statement of intention both before
and after, chose to be expelled from school. Their means was to persist in
disrupting and destroying things until they were sent home. I grew up in a
trailer park in Florida cracker country. I am not naive about these things.
I would like to see my children taught that rules, if they are fair to all
and needed to preserve good relations with others, should be freely adopted
and faithfully obeyed even if nobody else requires you to do so. And no
rule that is unfair and that leads to bad relations should be adopted and
obeyed except merely to avoid any bad consequences from others who take it
on themselves to enforce it. I would certainly not want them taught that
rules are to be accepted just because somebody thought them up.
I see no conflict between this and RTP. Do you?
If you choose to stay disentangled from this, that's fine. We are talking
about an area of application projected beyond what has been solidly
demonstrated in PCT. I am pushing back against what seem to me to be
unwarranted conclusions. If we are content to say "We don't really know
yet. Let's watch what happens in RTP schools, and see if we can get some
good data." that would be a good outcome requiring no further debate here.
Bruce Nevin
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At 04:52 AM 12/02/1999 -0700, Bill Powers wrote: