( Gavin
Ritz 2010.09.11.14.07NZT)
[David Goldstein (2010.
09.10.21:36EDT)]
Gavin Ritz
2010.09.11.1050NZT)
What is a
“frozen control system?”
It’s a PCT Control System (s). There
could be many and there probably are.
Its error remains large and it’s
frozen at Time (A).
How do these
ideas help me find it?
All Internal Entropy production is defined
as the sum of the forces (qualities) times the fluxes (quantities). So some quality is blocked.
In this particular case forces could be
twin concepts like (attention-rejection, attachment-abandonment, expression-restriction,
grandness-depletion, support-neglect).
How do these
ideas help me to “unfreeze” the block?
You need to identify all this individuals control
variables (that is what they select) and link that to something like above. They
will have a common factor and that will be the internal frozen CS systems ** Identity (s)**.
You will need to gain mutual trust with
this person and what I mean by that is:
Definition 1.of mutual (trust) honesty:
relationships in which individuals can rely on each other not to engage in
doing damaging, harmful or injurious things to each other.
Definition 2: of mutual trust: being
“open” enough to connect with another for fruitful outcomes.
These two definitions mirror the forces I
mention above. For example if this person’s frozen time block is
attention-rejection most of their Controlled Variables will mirror this, ie
they will seek constant attention-rejection through things like hypochondria, saying
rejecting harmful things to others, degrade others, break rapport, sexually
permissive, say inappropriate things, general attention seeking etc.
It’s the job of the therapist to carefully
and gently identify these things and slowly bring it to the patient’s
attention in a mutually trustworthy way.
This is no easy task of that I’m
sure you are aware. At times maybe impossible.
Individuals that have these problems have generally
created a whole myth around their lives, that is most of what they have created
is to hide this frozen Control Systems(s), the older they get the worse it
becomes because the energy required to maintain it gets bigger. So they import
more entropy- select more control variables (drugs, alcohol, affairs, debt and
a whole raft of shocking behaviors).
I have lost quite a few friends to this.
It’s a very sad situation.
Gavin
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