[From Kenny Kitzke (2001.11.14 0915 EST)]
<Bruce Nevin (2001.11.13 19:17 PST)>
<It appeared to me that he was
poking gentle fun at you, Rick, for assuming the posture of a wise sage
issuing gnomic comments that only the initiated can fully understand. I
thought it was humorous.>
Yeah, Bruce! The whole thing about Rick in a nutshell.
I am only joking and promise to stop the plagiarizing of the Mary Powers-ism
very soon, if not now. But I think you have hit on what happens when any of
us (not just Rick) sagely judges others as if we know things about them that
are probably unknowable without much testing or two-way dialogue. Of all
people, PCTers should understand how difficult and speculative it is to form
opinions or make accusations about others based upon scant evidence and mere
observation
So when someone accuses another person of:
-having an agenda other than PCT
-not being sufficiently skeptical of Bible scriptures
-discussing PCT in terms of religion, but not the scriptures in terms of PCT
-taking a cheap shot
-hitting below the belt (to include myself),
we can assume that the chances of resistance and escalation of rhetoric are
likely to follow. Why? Because it disturbs some reference perception(s) we
like to hold about ourself. A reference I believe is higher than our beliefs
or systems concepts about things.
As an intended constructive suggestion, you as President could implore CSGNet
participants to stay away from personally evaluating people based upon your
own impressions. Contest what people say and the ideas they posit without
suggesting that there is something wrong with them as people. BTW, I think
you do serve as a good example of not putting people down even while
disagreeing with the positions they take or the things they do.
<Maybe the most comical thing about us humans is that we engage in so much
huffing and puffing about something so trivial as beliefs and disbeliefs,
even when we profess ourselves scientists. C'mon! A basic tenet of science
(as of buddhism, daoism, etc.) is that beliefs are temporary scaffolding.
Their use is to be taken very seriously, but the beliefs themselves not at
all.>
Well said, although beliefs are not trivial to those holding them. But,
those one person holds dearly should not be something someone else needs to
huff and puff about. In the context of PCT, both scientists and theists,
hold to certain beliefs and system concepts worth defending, even if
defending them hurts other people or if it kills themselves.
Why? Well, my proposed Twelfth Level gives a possible answer that I think is
missing in HPTC. Attacking a persons beliefs or systemic concepts or what is
right or wrong for them, does in fact disturb a real, measurable, testable
variable of self-respect, worth or value of that person and their existence.
And, scientist and theist alike become highly animated when that perception
of themselves as a human is being is disturbed by what they perceive others
perceive about them. It robs from their unique human spirit and dignity.
Unlike Bryan T., I see no reason to not explore on this net what people with
beliefs about science or religion (including atheism) tend to be like and do
so we can understand their behavior in terms of PCT. Where we go amuck seems
to be when we personalize it and accuse people of having agendas that are
right or wrong, proper or improper. Mike Acree, the anarchist. Kenny the
religious one. Williams the economic guru. Bruce Abbott, the reinforcement
guy. Bruce Gregory, the one who always likes to show you are wrong guy.
I know it is hard to separate the general beliefs and systems concepts from
those of a particular individual. But, how about when we feel a need to
personalize it, to approach the person privately instead of in a general
forum. Then, we can find out if our perceptions are really the same (one on
one) and whether we choose to engage in dialogue or let us each one be
ourselves in peace. When two or more seem to find some common view, perhaps
that can be thrown out as a general idea on the CSGNet?
Just my two cents (sense) on elevating the discussions. 